Hello My Blog Stalkers!!! First of all, Wish you a super duper 2010!
After a hell lot of persuasion from within and from you people, here I am back to writing, hopefully with the same kind of zing. The New Year started as usual! I danced with friends, forced my Pappu dear to dance and blabbered like never before! These days for your kind information, I talk so much that maybe I’ve no energy and matter left to be jotted down.
The year that said Alvida
The year that stands ahead
I’ve promised myself only one thing! And that one thing further relates to many others!
TALK LESS!
Benefit 1:
If I shall talk less, I will consume lesser energy that will further result in serious prohibition of a bad habit – “Hogging at odd hours!” This would automatically control my dietary habits and I do hope to lose a few more kilos.
Benefit 2:
Whenever I talk, I just talk my mind out without really sensitizing my words according to others’ whims, which is for sure, the worst way of people handling. If I talk in a controlled manner, I would not hurt too many people, which follows that people will start liking and respecting me more. Radz- You can just talk to yourself!
Benefit 3:
I’ll get to blog because there’ll always be something left to share with you people. Words have never failed me and I feel a sincere sense of duty towards them. I’m the writing types, so I guess a person should do what he has been crafted for!
Benefit 4:
If I talk less, I also think slightly lesser. The more I talk, the more I ponder over things and most of the times also feel remorseful about the same. My tongue is as sharp as the ‘khukri (Nepali Knife)’ and it just needs to tone down a little.
Benefit 5:
Talking less surely avoids fights. The more you talk, the more you get involved, the more you delve deeper into the issue and the end result is just a boiling hot discussion. So talk less, fight less!
After all these benefits, I don’t think I should be writing the disadvantages! But I guess all the New Year resolutions only hold true from January 2. So let me just talk talk and talk more for one last time!
Talking less means proportionate decrease in expressing my feelings. Talking less, means keeping more to yourself and suffering alone. Talking less, means being less heard by your folks, which I feel is like cheating yourself. Talking less can also be compared to not having a say in any situation –which me being a strong headed individual generally have! I like to opinionate at times! Talking less, means more time to hog! Talking less means more passive time to think and think more! Talking less means giving the others a chance to talk – which makes me feel like – “Train will go off if I don’t speak out!” Talking less, means being tagged as composed – which I’m of course not!
So, you see what I mean! It’s super difficult for a girl like me to make such kind of a resolution. But still, let me give it a try. As you grow up, so should your thoughts and the spirit of giving should be enhanced for sure. I need to give a chance to the rest to speak! I should outgrow my fantasies and wrong beliefs of the train leaving me. I won’t travel alone and hence, there will always be someone to pull the chain and stop the train for me! Ha ha!
Anyway, effectiveness is the key. The expressions of mine that you see in this collage signify that I’ll try to be more effective in my talking and working. Talk less but talk effectively. Act less, but whatever Nautanki you do – do it soulfully! Work less, but make it seem that you’re sweating it out.....Eat Less, Weigh Less, Look into the mirror less, fight with your parents less, ...etc etc etc LESS!
But just one thing....
1 comments:
Hi
Good to see you active after months. Thank You!
I guess your readers deserved a better word than "Stalkers", though it's kind of OK if the words are used by Radz.. :).
I'm really wondering if you can adhere to your "New Year Resolution".
But there are certain thoughts, which may help you to stick to your resolution, and I would like to share them with you.
1. Don't think that if you talk less, you'll be expressing yourself less. It does not go that way, Ma'am. Brevity is soul of wit. Don't worry about "how much" you talk, but worry about the contents or the lack of it.
I read somewhere-
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry said: “Perfection is achieved not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.” Simplicity is virtuous in belief, design, planning, and justification. When you profess a huge belief with many details, each additional detail is another chance for the belief to be wrong. Each specification adds to your burden; if you can lighten your burden you must do so.
2. Most of people are so involved in "expressing" themselves, and to tell the things in their mind, they forget to listen to other people. Think about it. Try to listen. Try to listen to every word, every Gesture. May be you'll realize you were missing so many things that were shouting at you. That were so obvious.
And Thank you so much for your wishes. Also, convey my new year wishes, to "chain puller".
Wish you a joyful life.
Neo
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